I'm an ex-Dead Head ( no worries, DD free ), who is still trying to find what I was looking for those years when I was floating in the clouds. . . and peace & love are definitely an essential part of that. I am someone who tries to love everybody . . . I don't always succeed, but I'm willing to try. I've been getting interested in sacred sex and tantric sex lately although I don't claim to be a guru. Looking for a woman whose curious or even experienced. If you don't know what they are give google a try ... you may find different answers. Sacred sex is almost the opposite of porn inspired sex where the physical is the end all and be all. It relies on a juicy integration of mind body and soul that uses physical techniques to slow everything down so you can catch up with all the sensations and make sure your soul is present to experience trascendant pleasure and release. So if your maybe on of those woman who feels half guilty for being on this site, we might be able to able to make each other happy without tossing away the caring that we both know is something to encourage, not abandon. Everyone knows being with someone you love is far sexier than just sex, so lets see what we can do. Tantric sex is for those who love more, not less ... even though they may be open to loving with less commitment and confinement than society tried to insist on. I am ultimately looking for a soulmate to settle with, so for now I prefer finding an ongoing FWB on this site, although anything could happen. As far as being intimate with a woman I do think our basic love style is important --- I'm pretty mellow I don't like getting into dirty talk or aggressive sexuality . . . I'm more into trying to settle into a place where we can both let go and let our sexual energy really be free and get everything we've been looking for instead of playing games. When things are right there's nothing left to do but smile. Lets find that together.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone open to love but not in a traditional committed relationship. I'm open to a large age range. I can be as patient as makes you feel open. Some one who wants to experiment with their sexuality and feelings in a laid back safe feeling way. I don't care if your body or personality is not perfect. I'm really just looking for someone who is kind. I hope to find people that are open or curious about exploring spirituality and sex, like with tantric sex. I am pretty careful about safety and I don't want to have sex in person without taking some precautions ( that don't have to be all that limiting).