I'm a professional, well-educated man who is looking for some new adventures. I am married and playing with my wife's permission (She can verify this if you wish.) Drug, disease and drama free 420 friendly I'm down to Earth, witty, funny, and like discussing just about anything. I don't mind making friends, but I'm not really here for that unless it comes with benefits. I like movies, trivia, some outdoor activities,dancing, games (video, board, or some card), drinking, traveling, and adventures. I like discussing the solutions to the world's problems over a nice bourbon and cigars. I've been pretty vanilla most of my life and I'm looking to explore and experience some new things. Light BDSM play is probably at the top of the list.

My Ideal Person Is laid back and fun to be with. No games or drama. Actually willing to meet.
I'm attracted to a wide variety of women. I'd really like to experience some friends outside of my race and ethnicity. I'm open to singles, couples, or groups.

Ideally, I'd choose a FWB situation, but am not opposed to a few random encounters.

If you view my profile because I've sent you a message, and you are not interested, please drop me a quick, polite note to let me know. I also welcome feedback on my profile and pics.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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