Preference for black men. I love a man who is aggressive, but not abusive and confident, but not cocky. Must have incredible sense of humor and is into complete honesty. I am a BBW, and happy with who she is overall, but in progress of learning to live a healthier lifestyle. Ask me what I am looking for and I will probably tell you that I am not "looking" for anything. I believe people come into others lives when they are meant to and leave the same way. I work a crazy schedule and that prevents me from getting out often to meet people, so I thought I would give this a try.

My Ideal Person Sounds shallow, but all this is "ideal", and we know that a book cannot be judged by its cover. My ideal is tall (over 5'9"), dark (black males of all shades..lol), and handsome (to me). The only things I consider MUST's are honesty, ability to communicate, and be straight.