Now single and no longer in a relationship. Profile says "Couple" because AFF charges to make a change. Hopefully I'll be in a relationship again soon and "Couple" will be correct. As my tagline says, I am hoping to eventually be in love in a long-term relationship. But who knows what the future will bring? I'm willing to meet you and see if we both feel a connection and chemistry. Certainly both of us want at least that. Let's talk and do fun things together. Only time and being together will tell what will develop between us. This is, of course, mainly a site about sex and I very much enjoy a wide variety of sexual experiences. But I'd love to experience many other things as well. Ultimately I desire a long-term relationship of two soul mates in love. There are so many fun things to do in southwest Florida - outdoors and indoors. I like a variety of experiences together and also with others. The interaction of our minds is also important to me. Interesting, fascinating conversation about a myriad of subjects - except for sports and politics. Those are two things that really don't interest me. In-depth conversation about our thoughts, feelings, emotions, ideas, fears, desires and fantasies really enriches a great relationship. In addition to the "vanilla" aspects let's get out the hot spices too. Exploring a variety of sensual and sexual activities is something to be enjoyed. There is much to experience with each other and with others we encounter. Kissing, caressing, touching, tasting - the sensations are limitless. It is a real thrilling experience to engage all the senses in sexual play. However, it's not just physical sensations that I seek. Yes it is fun to enjoy all the physical pleasures but it is also wonderful to have interesting conversations. I like discovering and exploring with others on many levels, friendship, thought provoking chats and sensuality. Hopefully you do too. This lifestyle offers a broad range of fun experiences, not all of which have to be skin on skin. For example, erotic times of watching others and being watched on webcams is especially enticing. So much to delight the eye from people from so many places. Tantalizing our senses into a sensual frenzy of pleasure over and over. It is an awesome place to travel. But as I have said, I'm ultimately looking for a long-term relationship. Following is a more vanilla description: What are you looking for in a partner? Are any of the following traits, attitudes and activities on your wish list? A polite, respectful and courteous gentleman that will open doors for you. A man that values honesty and integrity very highly - whether in his business or peral life. One that is reliable. A positive attitude that results in a happy demeanor virtually all the time. No constant complaining about the petty things in life. Not moody. Balanced. No wild swings between elation and depression. Predictable emotion-wise. You want a man with a fun sense of humor? A quick wit that'll keep you on your toes. Never knowing what to expect. You are playful and enjoy him messin' with ya frequently. Usually it's with a straight face so you'll have to be alert - "Does he really mean what he just said? Or is he messing with me again?" Enjoying that interaction with each other. I still have not met my match in this regard but would love to. A good communicator that will enjoy listening to you and talking with you on a broad range of interesting subjects. Someone who will stimulate your mind with his curiosity and fascinating new discoveries. A problem solver that will seek solutions together when difficulties arise. Those situations I strive to handle kindly and calmly. Avoiding words that would later be regretted and tones that only serve to escalate a problem. Drama is not my way of dealing with issues and I seek a similar partner. So, you like learning and experiencing new things? Together? Somewhat adventuresome? Want a man whose vocabulary doesn't include the word "boredom"? You prefer quirky and different over predictable and sameness. Average Joe Blow neither intrigues you nor piques your interest. A staid old man is definitely NOT what you are looking for. (Look up the word for a good definition.) You want a fun and active life together. Getting out and doing things as partners. A variety of activities. Outdoors, indoors. Traveling around Florida, seeing all it has to offer. You will not find me to be lazy, expecting to be waited on. I believe in a relationship of equals, sharing in what needs to be done. Cooking, doing dishes and laundry, cleaning, making the bed and sharing the costs of our outings. I have a broad range of interests. Does anything in this long list pique your interest? zest for life casual down to earth fun healthy active energy nature environment outdoors walking hiking biking beach secluded beaches kayaking boating sailing nature parks camping gardening landscaping butterflies fragrant plants orchids photography music dancing traveling Florida old towns museums the arts cooking shopping communication conversation discussions German (fluent) honesty truthfulness mutual mental stimulation intelligence educated learning curiosity questions creativity green building joy witty sense of humor playfulness teasing laughter quirky spontaneity open mind adventurousness exploring new experiences wild thunderstorms lightning caring compassionate giving soul mate loyalty commitment love affectionate chemistry candles romance sunsets meteor showers moonlight walks holding hands hugging PDAs kissing intimacy cuddling massage seduction erotic passion making love sex every day

My Ideal Person I am aware of the differences in desires. Whereas some very much enjoy hot sexual experiences and are ready for that fairly quickly, others prefer a slow gentle approach. Both are fun but I would like to discover what you enjoy and feel comfortable with. So I appreciate people that communicate their preferences to me. That can be as simple as returning touches as we talk or dancing together. Gradually leading our conversation to more erotic subjects. All this says, I'm enjoying this. I want more. When it comes time to play, I enjoy active lovers, spending as much time giving as receiving. Giving repeated oral pleasure is a favorite but hopefully you will also take the initiative in various ways.

Now more about the every-day aspects that I very much enjoy in a partner:

Being a multi-faceted man I am looking for a long-term partner that has a diverse personality and diverse interests.

Being a very deep, sensitive and caring man, I am looking for genuine love with a soul mate, kindred spirit and best friend. It would start with dating but hopefully it would develop into wanting to be together for the rest of our lives.

Being a communicative man, I long for open and honest communication of all of our thoughts, feelings, desires, fears, likes, emotions, dislikes and fantasies. Being able to express everything that is within us without fear of criticism, judgment or rejection but rather with understanding and acceptance.

Being an active man, I would also like her to enjoy some of the following: dancing, outdoors, nature, camping, biking, hiking, boating, kayaking, sailing, photography, gardening. See anything there you enjoy? If so, wonderful! And I'll enjoy your activities.

Being a romantic man, I enjoy love, candles, romance, kissing, bubble baths, massage, intimacy, butterflies.

Being a sensual man, I'm looking for chemistry, seduction, passion, sex with my soul mate.

My ideal partner would be a multi-faceted lady. But please do not think I'm expecting to find a lady with all of the traits I'm sharing with you here. This profile tells you a bit of who I am and what I enjoy and am looking for. I do not expect to find a lady that fulfills all of it but am hoping for a lady that fulfills at least some of it.

She would have a good sense of humor and understand and enjoy mine as well because that is a big part of who I am.

She'd be a bit wild and adventurous to try new things - nothing dangerous, of course. This would mean going out and trying new activities.

She is somewhat curious and intelligent and desires mutual mental stimulation and interesting conversations and discussions.

She has a sensual, sexy, seductive and naughty attitude and really is open about and enjoys the entire realm of sensuality and sexuality. She loves wearing attractive, sexy clothes and turning heads in the process.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Lionel Richie, Sting

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Fragrant Massage Oil

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No, I haven't.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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