First of all, I've paid so that Standard Members may contact me because I understand you may be limited on the number of emails you can respond to. Secondly, the location on my profile says Vidalia, GA. Not true. I currently live in north Florida but I edited my profile because I was no longer getting any decent cupid matches for my former location. I do travel in southern and central/middle Georgia and northern and central Florida. I'm a 60+ professional with college and advanced degrees in marketing. I enjoy the outdoors and I'm seeking NSA lady friend for intimacy, laughter, good food and fun. Not looking to alter your circumstances or mine. Mutual respect is a given. I'm married. My wife's has been disabled for about 10 years now and yes, I still would like to have sex on a regular basis. Physically, I'm in good shape since I work out several times a week and have been told I have a nice, tight butt. I've also been told I'm younger looking for my age but then again when you're healthy, age is merely a number, don't you think? I'm looking for someone who has her own place for privacy. Would like a friend if you need a friend and lover. I am Southern born and bred. I believe in common courtesy so I make it a point to open doors for ladies, ren and old folks. I'll pick up the tab the first few times but I not a sugar daddy. Having said that, due to some recent embarrassment, and to prevent it in the future, I feel I need to add this addendum to my profile. So here goes: If you have any expectation of me compensating you in any way financially in return for our playtime together that will not happen. Never has happened; never will. I certainly am not critical of how anyone chooses to earn a living but me participating in that type of arrangement is not in my wheel house. Now with that disclaimer out of the way, allow me to continue...I can make your favorite adult beverage just the way you like it. (BTW, do you know that Southern Comfort is a blend of bourbon and peach flavor to provide just that right combination that makes it so tasty?) I'll stand when you return to the dinner table and I'll pull out your chair for you; I wear boots occasionally-- I'm talking about the slightly worn, I-could-have-just-come-in-from-the-woods boots. I can grill a great porter house steak but you got to fix the salad...with extra tomatoes. But I don't spend more time in front of a mirror than you do. And I do not wear at hat or cap indoors especially in a restaurant, not even Waffle House on the first day of deer sea. As I said I am Southern to the core. I like grits, greens, cornbread, tomato sandwiches, fried chicken, homemade buttermilk biscuits, barbecue, and banana pudding. And I like food that's simple and unadorned. For example: the tomato sandwich. Of all the foods that define Southern-ness, the tomato sandwich may be right up there with grits are the true dividing line. It is an excellent example of the maxim that the simplest ingredients yield the highest reward: Bread. Mayonnaise. Tomato. Salt. Pepper. You may debate each element--which bread, which mayonnaise (we purists prefer Duke's), which tomato. But add anything more and you've gone too far. You may be able to buy a tomato in January, but you can only achieve tomato sandwich greatness in the months of tomato perfection. Earlier than June or later than September and you should forget it--eat grilled cheese. I know you Yankees are like, "A tomato sandwich -- what else do you put on it?" I say you have not experienced the true treasure of life if you haven't had a tomato sandwich. Sometimes with the simplest things in life, you think you have to make it better. And you really don't with a tomato sandwich. I am looking for a long term, stable relationship with a lady friend with the accompanying benefits. Your having other men in your life isn't a problem. I am seeking an intelligent, mature, down-to-earth woman who likes to laugh, doesn't take herself too seriously, is comfortable in her own skin even if she feels she has a little extra padding. BTW, maturity isn't about age; it's more about life's experiences rather than years. I am looking for good times, good food, laughter, warmth, humanness, and hope you're like me--disease and drug free. I am very accepting of you, regardless of your size, physical attributes or ethnicity. I am very comfortable in my own skin and where I am; I hope you are as well. Also, I'm not looking to alter your circumstances or you mine. I'm confident enough to not take myself too seriously and hope you don't either. And let's be honest...this isn't a dating site. It is a sex site. That's why we are here, isn't it? But having said that, even though AFF provides the means to lower the barrier to frank discussions of sexual intimacy, I don't assume or expect that sexual intimacy is a given. In fact, I've found that things usually go a lot more comfortable for me if I don't hold any expectations and regard whatever occurs between you and I as a wonderful gift. And to me that's what sex is...a gift, a present. Not a biological function but a ceremony, and certainly fun. Having said that, I am not a novice. I was taught at an early age to ensure your pleasure. Pleasing you is as important to me as it is to you. Tell me what your desires are and I will respect your limits of any play whatsoever. So whatever you'd like, just tell me. I will add for those who are interested that I tend towards being a Dominant in the bedroom. I have been told I'm a very considerate Daddy Dom. ALTERNATIVE ACTIVITIES Yes, I would be interested in them, but ONLY if you are of that mind set. Yet this type of situation and relationship can be very pleasing and pleasurable to both of us on a myriad of levels...mentally, psychologically, emotionally and physically. Should you have an interest in exploring some your deeper, hidden, secretive desires, please don't be hesitant or shy regarding that. I an very much open to exploring with you those different aspects of your sexuality that you may consider unusual/kinky. I am not judgmental in that regard. After all, as I said, this is an adult sex site and we're all adults with different and unique psychological and sexual needs, wants and desires. The mind is the world's greatest sex organ. This lifestyle can only happen when there is total trust. It is that special combination of both that makes it such an intense and special relationship. After all, there is not a street in the United States where someone is not being tied to a bed, blind folded and spanked tonight. Now, if you have any questions about "alternative activities" feel free to ask. Should I contact you it is because I've read something in your profile that indicates you are different and a cut above the average woman on this site. I see something special in you. First date would be coffee, lunch or supper at some quiet place where we could talk. I'm not into the noisy music bar/party thing. I want to devote my attention to you when we meet so that means I want to be able to hear every word you say. I want you to feel free and comfortable to just be yourself with me. I am very much into conversation that reveals the depth of you as well as me. Intimacy is more than physical contact. For me, it's also the mental and psychological aspects of two people sharing what's important to them in a comfortable way that builds trust. So feel free to ask me any questions that aren't covered by this profile. Having said that, I would like to walk away from our first meeting excited about seeing you again.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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