I find life does have a lot to offer....I'm quite happy and grateful for the things I've been able to do, such as exploring the world (especially exotic and non-western cultures), creating and releasing my music and films, and spending time with close friends. Uh oh, this is sounding like it's veering into flowery personal ad territory, so I'll just say that I like romantic walks on the beach -- as long as we're bringing along a blindfold and a crop. I view a serious Dom / sub relationship as almost a spiritual bond... a submersion into a mutual devotion that heightens the senses and explores the psyche as well as the body. Boundaries, for me are elastic, and waiting to be stretched.

My Ideal Person The qualities I seek in a person are:

Lust for life (as Iggy says). One who is not ruled by fear or complacancy, but who has a sense of adventure. and the perspective that life is a gift and the possibilities are only limited to the edges of our vision.

A sense of humor. She will be able to see the ultimate absurdities in life and flow with them.
I believe that if we take ourselves too seriously, most others will not.

Openness towards sexuality. Well, I don't think there's enough space on the internet to keep going on this one....but I think you'll know what I mean here by just looking at the rest of my profile.

A creative mind that can see the world a little differently than others. Somebody who thinks outside the box -- an inventor of sorts.

Strength and capability. No, I don't think that strength in a submissive person is an anamoly. Just the opposite, in fact. I'd like to be with somebody who has a clear idea of herself and what she wants.
Somebody who has acheived her goals, or is on the way to that.

As far as physical appearance, I like many different types--as long as she is fit and healthy and attractive

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

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