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words from dr. T 1/12/2006
From stat to finish, breakups are comprised of at least
five stages ‒ unless the romance ends in an unexpected explosion
of emotion.
The first three----
The Awakening-The period of awakening is characterized
by the end of the infatuation, a drop of attraction, a loss
of excitement of being together, and the onset of reality.
The problems, deficiencies, and differences that seemed ...
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On the side of sex 1/12/2006
I hadn’t been involved with a woman in seven years as my wife
went through a phase of not wanting sex; she just seemed
to want a platonic relationship and simply expected me
to go with it. After eighteen months of this I finally succumbed
to the approaches of one of her friends who we have known
since our went to playgroup together. I had known
she was interested for quite some ...
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Taking a Break? 1/11/2006
Ok, what the hell is the deal with women that instead of saying
they want to break up, prefer the term "take a break".
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In my opinion, this is an excuse to start messing around
with other people, while still trying to keep the other
person "on the backburner".
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Is it so hard just to be honest and say something like, "Y'know,
things just aren't working out and I ...
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tough break ups 1/10/2006
I've never been good at break ups.
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Best way to heal a breakup 1/9/2006
Well, in terms of what I have gone through in my life, I would
say that the best way to get over a break up, is "Time".
Time is a healing factor for many areas like when you break
a leg. Doctors are a big role in that area to heal it, but over
time, it does get better. The leg may not be back to its normal
strength when it is fully healed, but you can use it again.
Same goes for a breakup, ...
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Getting over somebody? 1/9/2006
Okay, I had spoken about the following earlier and it was
mentioned that I should put this into an article, so I am.
Here it is:
So - theres alot of talk about about whether person X has
gotten over person Y. When people discontinue things,
advice comes from every which way saying "get over
them quick!" But what really is "getting over
someone" and whats the point? I think too ...
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keeping it together 1/8/2006
i find that when i've been with a girl for a few months
things start to cool down, i start to lose interest and my
eyes start to wander, i feel guilty about it sometime, but
i just cant help it, i always feel like i could do better that
what ive got, so i end up breaking up with them , but i never
have a reason why to give them. does that make me a bad person?
1 Comments, 115 Views,
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Karma sucks!!! 1/7/2006
It happenned two days before Christmas. I can still vividly
remember how crisp and cold the morning was, and how perfectly
deliciouse the donuts lying infront of me for breakfast
looked. The previouse night's conversation was still
playing in my head leaving an unpleasant aftertaste in
the pit of my stomach. I wanted to talk about it before he
left to go to the gym, when he opened his mouth ...
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break up in person? 1/6/2006
what do you guys think is the best way to break up, over the
phone or in person?
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my top 10 excuses from breaking up 1/4/2006
10- you look like your mother
9- your sister does it better
8- it's not you, it's my wife
7- having is a mistress is outta my budget
6- i dont like your tits
5- im seeing someelse (not really..i just want to meet more
chicks at AdultFriendFinder.com)
4- im getting deported (not really..i just want to meet
more chicks at AdultFriendFinder.com)
3- too many taxes
2- I prefer ...
1 Comments, 154 Views,
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Yeh right 1/4/2006
Breaking up is easy?
A lady posted that hmmmm Easy if you got no soul.
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I don`t think so if you are classed as a decent human being.The
love of my life dumped me its been 8 months now and I still
miss her and always will.When ive also broke up realationships
I find myself feeling really guilty as dont wont to hurt
anyone.Is this just me or should I join the band waggon of ...
1 Comments, 175 Views,
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break up 1/4/2006
when is it time to call it quits and give up on the girl
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Getting Over You 1/3/2006
Getting Over You
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Another day has pass, my feelings are still the same. It
has been a while, since I've said your sweet name. Why
is it like this? What did I do wrong? When will these feelings
end? I've waited far too long. My thoughts are fading,
the answers I can't find. Damn! how can I get, you out
of my mind? The words are running out, there's nothing ...
0 Comments, 134 Views,
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No surrender. 1/3/2006
I dump you. You dump me. Get over it. Life goes on.
3 Comments, 343 Views,
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be nice!! 1/2/2006
i believe being up front and honest at any age is best policy!!
went to a swing party with a new AdultFriendFinder contact..we were new
so wasn't prepared for the swing style...but know
now.. anyway, , experience was good..and after we left
he mentioned we could be swing partners for more events..
i thought cool, , and guess assumed we would also meet for
fun one-on-one.. wrong.. never heard from him ...
1 Comments, 301 Views,
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trouble 1/2/2006
OK now I know that this is a sore subject but what the hell.
i have benn kinda seeing this beautiful lady for awhile
now and at first we had the understanding that it was going
to be a physical realtionship and nothing more. well now
she is wanting to introduce me to her family what in the hell
should I do.
3 Comments, 171 Views,
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It's hard 1/2/2006
I find that it's very hard to do, I recently broke up
with someone and it hurts like hell. He really wasn't
the one for me yet I fell in love with him. I still think about
him all the time and sometimes I want to give him a call. I
realize that he really didn't love me as he said he did.
But it still hurts. It's hard to move on when there isn't
someone else to replace him. I guess that's ...
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Awwww 1/2/2006
Breakin' up wit sumbody is easy to me, just let em know
that there's no more..whats da big deal anywayz???
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breaking up with mental person 1/1/2006
if its one thing to breakup with a mental person, try doing
it with someone who is mental!!!
you dont know if its the true person speaking or the madness
taking over. 8 mths now and still dont know if were in a relationship
or not. it really hurts cause u know nothing, want to give
everything and theres ABSOLUTELY nothing that you can
do for yourself or your partner. talk about a fucked ...
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It's so hard to do 12/31/2005
Breaking up. Normally it ends with one person unhappy.
Have you ever had a relationship when both people wanted
to break up. I just got out of one. Those are the best kind.
No one gets hurt and it normally has a good ending. This one
didn't. She told be that it was mutral but now she calls
me. It's not just for sex. She wants back together and
won't quit calling my famialy. This is just a ...
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'Men WHY? ARE THEY THAT WAY? 12/30/2005
WELL , I live in an apt .... I was washing laundry the mantenance
man threw my clothes in the trash. He claimed because they
were on the floor where should dirty laundry be. The rule
where, I live is if its there more then a few days they can.
They tried to justify his defiance, bull > i said tell
him to come to my face hes lieing. So then, my called
theyre farther he gave them a ...
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Is it hard to do? 12/29/2005
Breaking up can be the hardest thing to do, but how do you
do it properly. We think taht you need to confront the person
and let them know exactly what is failing in the relationship
and see if it continues before ending it.
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Hard to break up 12/27/2005
I s it hard to break up with someone you have been with for
a long time. i know it is for me to do it and it should be hard
for you if you were really in love with that person. Why are
there so many relationships out there that are just going
downhill. Why are there so many people getting divorces
after just 1 year of marriage. Please tell me why people?
2 Comments, 145 Views,
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Why do people get depressed after they break up? 12/26/2005
For example: My girlfriend got dumped by this man, who I
really didn't care for anyway, and she was in tears
for weeks, didn't want to go to work or out anywhere.
I think that is just crazy. Hell it's not like he died
you got dumped get over it. My friends think that I am a bitch
because I go out the following weekend and start talking
to men. For me the way I see it is if he really ...
2 Comments, 151 Views,
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Works every time! 12/26/2005
The way to experience is following a lead...Know the person..Alow
them to stumble and fall..be true to them and yourself...It
will be so easy then..They will leave you...or you will
see the results of the breakup coming...listen to your
friends and family...they look out for you...Know the
best way out and to break up is to each go their seperate ways...although
they may not...Be wise about ...
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Advice... 12/23/2005
I think breaking up should be done in a different way. In
my opinion, it is much too sudden to completely cut a woman
out of my life without. I would much rather continue talking
to them but much less and clearly without the same mindset.
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Hah 12/21/2005
Yea thats why I joined this site, just to get the sex out of
it.
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is it normal 12/20/2005
is it normal that a girl loves you and you love the girl and
you have been together for a long time, and je brakes up because
it was getting to serious, and 2 or 3 months after she still
loves you and doesnt want to get togetheR?
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I miss that 12/19/2005
My first relationship ended over the summer. Since then
it has been a rough time with me between impossibly hard
engineering classes, military training, and getting
over her. All my friends tell me that I need to stop thinking
about vagina, and focus on work. They don’t understand
the problem though. It is the work that is killing me, and
the only thing I have ever found that made it ...
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Staying Friends 12/17/2005
When I was younger (and a lot more idealistic), I would always
want to maintain the friendship when a romantic relationship
ended. Now I have a different philosophy. After a significant
relationship ends, there should be no contact for about
a year. After that, if you reconnect as friends, then you
have a friendship that's worth something. If not,
then maybe you're better off remaining ...
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