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Make it clean; minimize the pain 10/24/2004
So often people talk in terms of not wanting to hurt the other
party in a break-up situation. That's a valid consideration
and often times reflects that even while the magic has gone,
there are lingering feelings and care about the other person.
<br>
Yet dragging out the process - whether it's being mean
to help provoke the other partner, using the let's
just be friends suggestion, ...
1 Comments, 42 Views,
27 Votes
,7.66 Score
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Man enough to say goodbye? (warning sexist lang used) 10/24/2004
So, i know that Men have a hard time witnessing pain that
is not sexually oriented---and even some that is (read
childbirth) but goodness gracious..
in an earlier post someone said something about breaking
up by text message...
<br>
isn't that.. or an email, or a voice mail or a phone call
better than nothing?
<br>
OR if HE is MAN enough..sit face to face and SAY ...
2 Comments, 31 Views,
30 Votes
,6.08 Score
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Breaking up by mobile 10/21/2004
What are we becoming when people are using their mobile
phone to end relationships? All you have to do is send a text
to the person that you are breaking up with and it's
all over. This is a person that you have shared interment
moment with, have cared for and maybe even loved. I think
if you are going to break up with your partner it should be
done face to face. Have the guts to stand ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
18 Votes
,4.35 Score
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Back to friends? 10/21/2004
I have been dating this woman for almost a year and a half,
we eventually moved in together. I am paying for everything
so she can go back to school. Last month she told me that she
just wants to be friends again. I keep asking for sex but
she just shoots me down. Last weekend she said she was tires
of the pressure and she moved out to live with family until
she finishes school, but she ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
33 Votes
,4.71 Score
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RE: Why Should Women Accept it When Men Cheat....... 10/20/2004
Tigress...I am sorry for your pain but I heard some advice
a long time ago concerning being involved with a married
man. If he will cheat on his wife (who may also be the mother
of his )...someone he presumably has an emotional
and financial connection to...what makes you think he
wouldn't also cheat on you?
1 Comments, 28 Views,
56 Votes
,8.58 Score
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she is a biatch 10/18/2004
my ex is a biatch she has to fuck with anyone she even fucked
with her cousin! and she doesnt know why?
we still have sex but i wonder wat is going thru her head!
if someone can explain me why she fucks with ppl without
thinking that it could be wrong that pls contact me!
1 Comments, 9 Views,
18 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Why does it hurt when a married man says MY WIFE KNOWS 10/16/2004
I was just wondering why does it hurt when a man says my wife
knows about you.Love is not supposed to hurt.But when he
told me i cannot see you anymore my wife found all your emails
it hurt i cried i 100% fell in love with this guy i know he still
loves me and i told him i still love him.He did not mean to
hurt me or break my heart or make me cry but he did he is sorry
for that but it still ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score
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is it worth chasing a old flame 10/16/2004
Aold flame wants to start again.after a few years of abscence
is it worth it.??//
0 Comments, 10 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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GF DRIVING ME NUTS!!! 10/13/2004
I am currently in a horrible relationship and am finding myself flirting with other women and pursuing other things with them. How am i supposed to make it any easier to break up without any feelings being hurt..... or stuff being broken lol
1 Comments, 71 Views,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score
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When AdultFriendFinder/Alt.com became a real let down 10/12/2004
I had met someone that was on both AdultFriendFinder and Alt.com last fall. His words were so charming that I had become blind and hypnotized to realize to his negative actions. He was married to someone else that he had chosen to deceive and manipulate while he was going with me, all the while claiming, "I found my true love on AdultFriendFinder/Alt.com" concerning me. The first time we went out, he bought me a gold ...
1 Comments, 52 Views,
21 Votes
,5.72 Score
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here today gone tomorrow 10/11/2004
I was playing with a guy on the internet. He said all the right words and was planning a future or so I thought for us. Then we talk on the phone one day and he tells me he's not over his last love. She dumped him when the going got tough. Why can't men just move on and not hurt another woman?
5 Comments, 290 Views,
15 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Re: A marriage built on lies.... 10/11/2004
I don't know what makes me, let alone others, stay in a relationship that isn't working. For myself maybe the fear of starting all over. Financially, emotionally not to mention re-entering the dating scene. What if no one wants me? How do I connect again after all these years and with whom? I've been out of the dating scene for 19 years. I look like a married man, act like a married man ...
3 Comments, 148 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Break Up 10/10/2004
Recently, My Girlfriend Of 17 Months Broke Up With Me. There Were No Warning Signs Everything Was Great. We Talked About Marriage, The Whole Bit,Quite A Few Times.
The Reasons She Gave Me Were Totaly Lame. For Example
She Said She Needed To "Find Herself".
Everyone I Tell That Too Just Laughs,
We Talked A Few Times On The Phone, The Other Day I Sent Her A Card For What Would Have Been Our 18 ...
2 Comments, 28 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Don't lead the girl on, you could be in trouble 10/6/2004
if you are not interested in a girl, it is best to just let
her know up front, instead of waiting until she has fallin
in love with you to do it. This way, you can avoid her trying
to frame you and don't have to worry about her dad's
shot gun.
0 Comments, 20 Views,
38 Votes
,8.13 Score
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RE:Why do i still love him? 10/5/2004
Hey. Just saw your article. I know exactly what your going through. My ex and I broke up a year n 5 mths ago. We went out for 8 mths, he said that if we were both single at the end of a year, we would get back together again. Hasn't happened yet, instead i am living with him as roommates right now or as he likes to call us "Fuck Buddies".
We are both still single but it doesn't look like we ...
0 Comments, 77 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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holding me back 9/27/2004
what do you do when your in a relationship of a very long time
but you want to experiment with other people but dont want
to hurt the other persons feelings. Can i say its just sex
? will that work?
0 Comments, 3 Views,
39 Votes
,6.33 Score
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Why should women accept it when men cheat on us??? 9/26/2004
I recently ended a relationship with a married man I was
with. I don't really know, I think I should be honest
to myself and say he ended it.
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This guy was sleeping with countless women. I wanted to
believe that I was the only other woman he was involved with.
Even though I could see right through him.
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My best friend (female) talked all the time that if she is ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
36 Votes
,7.81 Score
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Relationships ‒ Past & Present 9/24/2004
Relationships ‒ Past & Present
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It's probably not love after only one month, or even
six months. It's lust. And while there's nothing
wrong with lust, attempting to base a long-term, complex,
often trying relationship on it isn't usually a good
idea.
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Believe, without question (but without desperation either),
in your heart and your head that he is ...
0 Comments, 67 Views,
38 Votes
,6.89 Score
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A Poem About Being it Over 9/14/2004
"Let Go"
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Eventhough I love you
There's something you should know
It's hard for me to do this
But I have to let you go
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The past two years meant nothing
It was all just a lie
You could never forgive me
You ignored me when I'd cry
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You think you are so perfect
You've never made a mistake
But take a step outside yourself
And see how ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
21 Votes
,5.23 Score
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treat them mean! 9/6/2004
rite y is it that when you find someone you love dearly they
always start 2 abuse the relationship. is the old sayn true....
treat them mean keep em keen??? realy true???
1 Comments, 23 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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What is the best way to breakup without hurting his/ her? 8/24/2004
Hello to all,
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What is the best way to breakup without hurting his/ her?
7 Comments, 350 Views,
25 Votes
,4.35 Score
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online 7/18/2004
The worst way to break up is online! Guys don't do it!
that just as bad as writing a letter!
0 Comments, 26 Views,
24 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Break up in person? 7/9/2004
Do you think it's better to break up in person, as opposed
to over the phone?
0 Comments, 10 Views,
12 Votes
,4.21 Score
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men can really suck... 7/3/2004
im so tierd of men saying they love you just for a little ass
and then when they get it they dont want you anymore why is
that..if you just want ass then say it dont tell us u love
us and then say u dont mean it ...
1 Comments, 24 Views,
23 Votes
,5.11 Score
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Manners and Respect cost nothing 6/23/2004
Recently I got chatting to someone on here who is currently
living in another country. We appeared to get on like a house
on fire and so the texts emails faxes and calls all mounted
up. Things appeared to be going very well and we made an arrangement
to meet the next time he was due to come over to the UK. He appeared
to be an honest kind genuine person and against my better
judgement I ...
2 Comments, 46 Views,
33 Votes
,8.47 Score
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RE: Admitting you've cheated ..... 4/20/2004
You are absolutely right when you say, your admission of
infidelity may do more harm than good. By coming clean about
cheating, you may absolve yourself of guilt, by coming
forward with the truth and asking (begging) forgiveness.
However, your problem then becomes your partner's
problem (nightmare) and everything you felt plus more
gets dumped on your partner - the one you have already ...
0 Comments, 34 Views,
25 Votes
,6.89 Score
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If there is a right way? 4/17/2004
Is there a right way to break up?
Should there be a mutual break up?
Should the couple just ignore each other?
What do you think?
Suggestions?
0 Comments, 54 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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When breaking it off with a female. 4/12/2004
*try to talk it through first.
*Be honest.
*Dont list our faults-it doesn't help.
*Tell us, calmly and rationally what went wrong.
*Try to be calm; yelling and name calling aren't a way
of breaking up, they are a way of causing MORE pain.
*Dont string us along uneccessarily for weeks, that makes
it worse.
*don't say sorry. It pisses us off more.
*break it clean
*dont promise ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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friend can't seem to get away from gf 3/29/2004
What is it with nice guys, not being able to get rid of the
women that screw around on them and don't respect them?
I have a friend who is the nicest guy in the world....treated
his gf like gold....she cheated on him often, hid it from
him forever, and he has now found out. I'm scared he's
going to get back with her though, i'm wondering if
anyone has some advice i could give him....to help ...
1 Comments, 26 Views,
19 Votes
,6.03 Score
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How do you let go? 3/29/2004
How do you let go of someone? How do you cure a broken heart?
Everyone says time - but I'm finding that time just
hurts... they have moved on and you're still left there
lapping at your wounds.
<br>
Take it one day at a time.
Time heals everything.
I'm tired of hearing this.
I want strong arms around me at night. I want to feel closeness
again.
2 Comments, 128 Views,
39 Votes
,5.92 Score
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