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jstlkin4fun2 40M

11/19/2018 5:59 pm

Call it pride or whatever you want but they had their chance and they blew it. On to the next one.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/19/2018 6:15 pm

Uh... Sex and any of the options is fine... And then what? Do they go out for dinner because I know this all night place that serves the best Greek food in the city. You game? 😁🍲🍜😊


lukeaskewedx2 64M
254 posts
11/19/2018 8:15 pm

I'm sorry you had to post this poll, my condolences.

I reckon so


Hardupfosho 48M
1727 posts
11/19/2018 9:42 pm

I voted!

Oh and for what it's worth, if the spark faded away before, what's the point? I mean, there's just gotta be a spark, right?


Yours_4A_knight 59M

11/19/2018 10:17 pm

If we mutually agreed to end it and contact tapering off to nothing is agreeing without talking about it, then why revisit?

But then I am a strong believer in not revisiting the past

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/19/2018 10:55 pm

I would hope she'd of laughed at the idea
of sexting and hit me with a round
of how old are you? Is that fiftynineteen!
Are you waiting for your mom to pick you up, is that
why you called.
Wanted to vote but didn't see any that fit
I'm a man and der!

Using more than all the road!


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
11/20/2018 4:00 am

If it just petered out (snicker) and nobody was "to blame" and I wasn't sexing anyone currently, I'd be tempted to hit it again for old times sake. If the sexing was good to begin with... that's quite possibly the reason contact faded, it just wasn't all that good.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
11/20/2018 4:20 am

I tell them "that ship has sailed" bye!


Ben_Thinking 48M

11/20/2018 6:25 am

was it "just sex" from the beginning, or did one of you want something more? if sex is all it was, and all it is going to be, i see no reason not to jump back in (especially if the sex was good in the first place!) if it wasn't just sex, though, then i guess it's probably more complicated.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
11/20/2018 8:59 am

oh no, don't even try that shit

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
11/20/2018 9:58 am

There isnae an option for 'I'm a man and you're fucking gorgeous and I fancy you so too fucking right I would'...........so ah didnae vote!!

Nah, depends on the original connection, in my view, most people deserve another chance.........


Superman4695 39M
168 posts
11/20/2018 1:55 pm

Picked maybe. Depends how good she was and how long it's been since I had any. Gone a long time between hookups with some women. People are busy or things happen to them they don't want to talk about with a sex buddy like getting arrested (Really had that happen. She was in jail for 2 weeks for suspended license for unpaid speeding tickets when she got pulled over months later). The after prison sex was the best we ever had since it was over three weeks since she had a man when all was said and done.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
11/20/2018 11:24 pm

Generally I would say relationships end for very good reasons, and should not be restarted. BUT, not always, and so an open window may lead to an open door at sometime in the future, in some cases.
However, a email, or a message, after a long time, may not have any further meaning than they wish to retain contact with you, and may not be anything beyond that. I have tried to maintain contact with my past relationship gals, not my 3rd wife however, for reasons I wont go into here, and a few others that ended badly, but in general I hope I can remain friends with them on some level, as I really hate losing friends!


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
12/6/2018 5:44 pm

Over 40 the rules change but the fact that we’re here suggest the rules are even finer than a precision gauge.

We spend the first 25 years dating and being in relationships. Often, entering into these scenarios with ignorance first, hast, lust and then needs that need to be addressed – like immediately. The first thing that escapes us is time and over 40 that time, being persnickety and absent minded about what it is we really want in a relationship and a partner is even more damaging.

I’d suggest being more focused on the latter two. If he/she has the personality you desire/enjoy, there is no reason not to pursue and cultivate multiple options at the same time. One or two may not work out where others may offer intrigue and possibility that should be nurtured.

Over forty we don’t have the time to go from one to the next to the next and so on – one at a time. Age is catching up and those rules that worked fine at twenty or thirty just don’t facilitate the process of meeting someone, engaging and transferring into a relationship type of commitment.

By thirty we’ve already developed certain routines which include career and our personal lives with filled up schedules and diminishing energy at the end of the day. That gets worst as we mature and establishing relationships become even more difficult for those reasons alone.

Applying the rigid rules of our twenties to the latter makes it even harder. In the face of which - those potential partners that may work out – will choose the path of least resistance for life itself is already too challenging.

If the two of you have compatibilities that can be cultivated, cultivate them without demanding they materialize in a fixed time frame. Notwithstanding the above, make sure you’re using effective communication to determine if the real and underlying objective of your partner(s) match yours.

Burn the bridges that need to be burned and keep the ones that offer a potential path to your own goals. No one is perfect so jettison all efforts to find prince/princess charming (Mr./Ms. Perfect). Meaning reach for the stars and settle for the moon – it’s still 240,000 mile success.
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pussysmash6969 48M
17 posts
12/17/2018 7:18 pm

Grat read , hanks for sharing


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