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wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
5/16/2006 3:43 pm

gee, ya mean..."i wanna f**k you til you bleed"...doesn't float your boat - rotfl

i have said it before but it bears repeating - no more dick pics

i know you all love your member - but honestly, i need to know you before i want to see "him"

goes off chuckling and ^5 PJ

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


irishtongue71 58M

5/16/2006 4:50 pm

I have YET to email a single woman on here for anything other than outside of chit chat originating from the group.

Strange, eh? And yet, I'm one of the ones who DOES actually read the entire profile of the ones I do take the time to stop and look at. Maybe I'm just too picky. Or maybe it's because I'm not interested in getting caught up right now.

Who knows....it just never hurts to look.

IT

PS: High fives....you are dead on......I side with the women folk and that is why you don't see a cock pic on my profile.


reload4me 61M

5/16/2006 10:25 pm

I appreciate your views as I am new to the site. I revised an introduction to your interest group per your request. Very interesting stuff.


Mr_pkg 58M

5/17/2006 10:21 am

^5 PJ. Speaking of the number 5; rule 5: always agree with the women (having been married for 15 years, i feel qualified.....).

hehehehe

Now, gotta go figger out how to get a good pic of my caboose.


kittys4me2 61M

6/6/2006 3:12 pm

Which is why i only have a face pic loaded.


rm_2toflirtwith 59M/49F

6/7/2006 11:10 pm

Thank you for all the advice you gave to me on my blog, found ourselves a bit overwhelmed... Read your BLOG New to the Site... Great Info gonna try and follow your advice. Thanks again for helping a couple of newbies, was really nice of you!


rm_2toflirtwith 59M/49F

6/7/2006 11:11 pm

LOL, first thing I'm going to do is change the picture woops...Ladies close your eyes, lol


LilJohn670 50M

7/6/2006 7:28 pm

Hi Jackie,
I feel I know you after reading your story by NG.
Not exactly new, been a member for about five weeks. Of course, compared to your three years, yeah, guess I am new.
I have gone through all sorts of profile, pictures changes too. Now I am becoming more Conservative and really enjoying the blog community. I started out as a gold member now I am standard and may stay that way since bloging is the same either way.
Nice to meet you.
John


rm_lakesguy2005 50M

9/25/2006 3:22 pm

Hi,

I'm a professional male in Madison that enjoys boating on all the beautiful lakes in our area. I also enjoy trips up to Lambeau field and traveling. The majority of us never really get a chance to accomplish all the travel we dream of, and I'd like to some day make it a reality.

As for me in this group, I'd really like the chance to meet some like minded people that are really down to earth. Not everyone on AdultFriendFinder is bad or disgusting. Some are just very curious, and I think I'm one of those people.


rm_Aowen10 50F

10/10/2006 5:25 am

Nice message and good advice. Thanks. From a new member.


rm_Aowen10 50F

10/10/2006 5:30 am

A guy friend of mind thinks the same thing. In fact, he scared the shit out of me when he left me a message about my photos being used unauthorized. It turned out my photos were on here because I joined, but he thought the site stole them to attract men.


rm_Aowen10 50F

10/10/2006 5:38 am

is there anyone from indiana on here?


cumwitus2005 52M/56F

10/23/2006 12:27 am

Great topic. Some people only think with there dicks.


ccedbgag 62M
10 posts
10/26/2006 5:20 pm

Appreciate the education. Thanks. Now I'd better change my intro.


rm_corin1083 41F

11/3/2006 2:29 pm

i totally agree..most women do't want to see a dick in their face right away..they want to see that person first! i totally understand where you're coming from.


reload4me 61M

12/14/2006 11:05 am

I've been away but I'm back now and I'd like to paticipate in the group once again.


rm_vinylgod1963 60M
1 post
3/3/2008 10:32 pm

Well what do I do after I respond ?????


tripleheader1 66M/55F
1 post
3/3/2009 6:40 pm

I posted a picture of him in the bed W/no covers. Sure you can see his dick but its not one of those in your face shots. Not a planed or posed for picture but I feel it was tastefully done. He didn't even know I took it until he woke up about 20 min later. but I do agree That some of the dick shots on here were not taken in a tasteful manner (no pun intended)


eroticia4u 64F

5/20/2009 10:56 am

Jackie. well stated. I am so looking forward to meet you and other\'s i have got to chatwith here on this site!!!


eroticia4u 64F

5/20/2009 10:56 am

Jackie. well stated. I am so looking forward to meet you and other\\\'s i have got to chatwith here on this site!!!


F_looking4_FTM 58F

7/13/2009 12:26 pm

She's right, dick shots aren't attractive to women.
This seems obvious, but so few men do it that I'll say it: make it obvious that you've read her profile and that you're responding to her specifically, not just sending the same old email to any woman that catches your eye. And more than 1 sentence, please. "Hey I think your hot check me out and get back to me" is never, ever gonna fly.


westGuilford 77M

7/27/2009 4:36 am

This blog is written by a lady for ladies. From a mans perspective, a dick shot is for more quieter and intimate times. None of the men that I know walk down the street with it hanging out, so why would it be foremost in a portfolio?


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
7/30/2009 9:35 am

I have to agree totally Jackie on just about everything everyone has said.

I ALSO ENDED UP ON THE 'MOST POPULAR LIST' however I was FULLY CLOTHED!! I was 3rd overall, and I was getting bombarded with 100-150 messages A DAY!! And trust me, just about 98% of them were ALL FREAKING PENIS SHOTS!! Yeah, I know what it looks like, but to shove it out there saying "it is a sex site b*tch let's screw" is just NOT a turn on. It may be a sex BASED site, but it is not a whorehouse warehouse and to yell at me put out or get off the site.... the men would be left here all alone with nothing but bots and a few that you would catch something from if they did every guy that asked them.

Seriously, if you don't like something and want it respected... do the same for others.

As for 'this is written by ladies for ladies' all I can say is, if you WANT one of us then you MUST go by what WE like and dislike to a point. Continuing to act like a bull in a china shop is not going to get you laid.

I KNOW the age old fight of "dick shot or no dick shot" has even had guys insisting it works better and posting blogs about how it works. Guess what.. did you get a DATE out of it or just more views? Because it says a woman viewed you, are you SURE it was a woman and not a guy posing as a woman so he can get more views himself?? YES THAT DOES HAPPEN!! That man may even be gay and you don't know it!!! Trust me, it is not ALWAYS what you think it is on here. And NO woman I know has ignored every other aspect of a man because his penis was there. Quasimodo had one..but I am NOT doing him!! And yes, even women give genital shots.. but this post was not about women. That is a different post.

As for those infamous "do you till you bleed" messages.. well check out my blogs for some other do's and don'ts and get a laugh and ask yourself.. what were THEY thinking when they wrote that?? Some even prove that sad theory but it is true that many ruin it for others with their aweful behavior.

Check them out...

#1...Best Complimentary Emails wupdates
#2...Emailslame, boring, or just plain stupidwupdates
#3...A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates
#4...Unsolicited HATE Emails no prior contactwupdates

The site ads of "get laid tonight" and "sex is just a click away" is just NOT true for the most part. At least not here.


rm_oralkinky31 70M

8/8/2009 9:15 am

good advice i all ways let the lady tell me what kind of pic. she wants


LANDER1941 78M

8/26/2009 1:18 pm

As a older guy, I think with the much larger headI've found the heart works best for me!!


longtex3855 67M  
92 posts
10/15/2009 3:16 pm

I tend to agree with you on most of your points. I dont have a cock pic up, but often times im asked why not...my response is i dont want one up. Why you ashamed of your equipment, no, if you want to see it then lets meet and you can have a look and feel and taste if you like. so the cock postings are a double edged sword in my opinion, damned if you do and damned if you dont.


rm_cosdin 62M
2 posts
11/29/2009 5:37 pm

I am a new member so i dont really know how this site works. How do you meet people if you are just posting or can you go somewhere to chat because this seems like a cool room


rm_cosdin 62M
2 posts
11/29/2009 5:40 pm

I am new to this site and this room looks like my speed so hello everybody

#349670


rm_ibcuriousru 77M/77F

12/7/2009 2:50 pm

We have every intention of following the rules. If we break a rule it will not be on purpose and we would appreciate your guidance without threats or irate behavior. We are new at this and are unsure where we stand. We are looking for friends. If it progress past that point ok if not ok, we still have friends


a40mdman 63M
51 posts
12/19/2009 3:59 pm

Great post/ A lot of good advice


perfectass2006 42M
5 posts
1/21/2010 11:12 am

You make som great points in this post. Although it's long it is very imformationly. Any new members or inexperienced members should have to read this post lol.


rm_stillprime63 60M
5 posts
2/17/2010 4:12 pm

hi i understand your views and appreciate them , however whats good for the goose is good for the gander. i only show facials, however, the pics i get i might as well be a gynecologist, not sayin all but whatcomes aroun goes around.

i agree with you, and wish you the best

lee


honker674 56M

3/1/2010 12:01 pm

great article!!


Bob29321 70M
12 posts
3/13/2010 5:34 pm

It's nice to get a woman's poiint of view, I just wish more women on here would be as forth coming as you are and drop the fake profiles. Take care, Bob


funlovincouple2 53M/50F

3/26/2010 8:49 am

I fully agree, we are constantly getting messages from single guys, and in our profile it states we want a face pic. Yet we always seem to get the infamous "cock" pic. Women are all about attraction, and if your not attracted to whats above its hopeless for whats below regardless how wonderful and great one may think it is. GREAT advise to the guys on here.


tawnyhoni 48F

3/27/2010 8:49 am

I totally agree with this blog post. I often go through profiles and I ask, "How many pics of your penis can you take?" It's like some guys have photo albums dedicated to their penis. Is that you are--a penis? Here are some other pet peeves of mine: 1. Men that contact me or put in their profile that they love to make a woman cum with his tongue. I understand that is important, but there are other ways to make us cum--find out about them; 2. after a respectful rejection, men that email me back asking what I'm looking for. I guess you didn't read my profile and you think some how you can magically transform into that person; and 3. overly aggressive men--please don't tell me that I'm going to love your dick. You really don't know that. Just my take on things. Thanks for the post.


rm_wexers 63M

4/22/2010 4:27 pm

hello this is wexers i have been trying to find a group such as yours and now that i found one i will follow the rules of this club thank you sign wexers

hello this is wexers trying to find people who into this lifestyle big time


fred4043 37M
1 post
6/15/2010 12:07 am

Am dat guy ur mama n papa warn u about........but i guess i have 2 disguise a little.


alwayshornym7 67M

6/16/2010 4:09 pm

Many womens' pictures are just as "in your face" as what you describe in mens' profiles. Not very subtle. I prefer a little mystery and intrigue.


GavinMiguel 46M

10/27/2010 11:29 am

hi Jackie,
I completely agree with your point about reading profiles. I find a lot of woman do the same thing, they read a portion & thats it. now about the meet & greet, I just wish they had more events here in Jersey.
High-Five Jackie...

If you have the time, your opinion would be appreciated.

GavinMiguel


cpl4fun102010 74M/99F

11/8/2010 8:53 am

You hit the nail on the head with this post....this should be MANDATORY reading for all new members. Great job on it !!


cpl4fun102010 74M/99F

11/8/2010 8:58 am

One other comment to go with our first one. Some people have to be discreet, such as we are. We cant afford to have our face pics plastered out everywhere. The members with a photo gets 10 times the response. But we have to agree, a body shot WITHOUT the face is the way to go. Unless, of course, you have several identifying tattoos scattered over your bodies as we have. They are known around here as much as were are...lol What else are we supposed to do?


witz_end 54M

11/13/2010 6:15 am

i agree, but there are also some of us men who don't want a woman's main pic to be of what's between her legs,,,,i know she has it,,,if she wants to show it to me go ahead, but i'm not even interested in a pic of it being on her profile at all,,,i'm in a relationship now, so it makes me no difference at all if i get pics of it, i won't be touching it


rm_477romeo 44M
1 post
12/6/2010 1:49 pm

Hello Folks, I'm looking for some conversation with like minded people.


rm_eatursecret 42M
1 post
12/14/2010 9:47 pm

i love this post cuz it's always good for me as a man to learn something from a woman. MUCH RESPECT TO YOU....


shockwave64 59M
4 posts
12/18/2010 1:26 pm

I agree with your post and the sooner people understand these things the sooner they will enjoy this site.


rahul35153 42M

1/14/2011 4:29 am

nice n cute one


fuckmefrequently 118M/61F  
2 posts
1/27/2011 12:28 pm

I personally don't mind seeing the "cock shot", this is a sex site and not match.com. So, other than the comment about "Most women" perfer to see a face shot, you appear to be on track with most everything else. I have been on this site since 2005 and actually met my husband on here, amazing since all I was looking for was sex. So, there are successful relationships that are to be found if that's what you are looking for.....Just saying!


rhodeisland1971 52F
9 posts
3/9/2011 7:11 am

I don't respond to mail that is generic. If you email me and mention what you have in common with me from my profile description, I will be interested in responding. If I am just part of a mass email that you send, then you are not someone I wish to meet. Take the time to read and connect with people you eventually want to meet.

Anyone with a "Prefer no to say" in there profile is not ready to be who they are. Be honest, be open, read and respond to what you have read in the profile, with hard work and searching and responding to an ad personally you will find what you want.

That WILL take work and time to find like minded people. If you don't wish to make the effort to read, respond, and be honest with your description you won't meet people that you want. If you lie or be generic then you set yourself up for disappointment!


rm_meremaile 58M

5/6/2011 10:38 am

Very Nice Intro to this forum
Thanks


tonkie2 52M
1 post
6/27/2011 1:24 pm

well said


spook0606 62M
2 posts
8/20/2011 7:46 am

Good advise--taken under consideration--Thanks


CuriousLady6146 77F
23 posts
9/21/2011 11:57 am

Thank you for this. You speak my sentiments exactly.


timberlineduo 74M/72F
5 posts
11/10/2011 1:06 am

Experience counts, honesty rocks, I totally agree with you

Bless those who have or making the sacrifice for us, They are our heroes


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
2/4/2012 8:54 pm

Just wondering how many women who say they don't want to see cock shots display parts of their anatomy in their profile pic or have a sexually suggestive screen name.

I've been here 6 years and have made many friends and developed relationships of all kinds. I don't take everything written here seriously. Sarcasm runs rampant. I know some are just here to display themselves, perv cams, jerk off and get turned on by sending emails that don't say much more than "Wanna fuck?". The way I figure it is, if that's why they're here let them do what they want. I can always iggy or block anyone I find overtly offensive or annoying.

The site is what you make of it (admittedly, more so for women). People have to keep in mind they're on a site that's a combination social network and porn site.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


rm_redbeard0874 49M
1 post
3/17/2012 8:14 pm

New Here


gregory090 65M
4 posts
4/27/2012 12:04 pm

hello im looking for a woman over40 for friendship.


SashaV 45F  
7 posts
6/20/2012 6:45 am

I've been here about a year and a half and have met some fun women and had some really good 3-way sex. However... if you are new, you will be surprised at the number of 1. guys posing as girls (yech!); and 2. women who set up a meeting then don't show or cancel last second ("I forgot my dog has a vet appt" or "My dad just showed up - he needs me today - I hope you understand"). And this is for a woman (her) meeting another woman (me) at a public place! Or the ever-popular "I need to know you better before I meet." And just how does one get to know a somebody else without meeting? Anyway, there are some really nice people on the site, and you can have a LOT of fun through the site. Just be prepared to sift through a lot of rubbish to find the gems! Happy hunting


rm_Darts118 53F
8 posts
7/18/2012 7:37 pm

Wow! I couldn't agree more with you! It's obvious that not too many men took you up on your advice friggin' 6 years ago...Sometimes the cock shot is just discouraging, guys! There is more to you that I am interested in! AND for heaven's sake, take the time to do a profile!


OldSkaterX 61M
37 posts
9/28/2012 1:22 pm

Thank you. Your candor is a true service to we newbies. Thanks.


whatisifworth 57M

11/12/2012 5:39 am

Thank you!,very knowledgeable words to remember!,respect is a good thing.


eddie418192 71M

4/3/2013 10:10 pm

thanks for the heads up it is good advice very new to all this even at my age thanks again


Drivemehomee1000 54F
3 posts
4/23/2013 7:33 pm

Still learning!


rm_4jasmine2 53F
10698 posts
5/14/2013 7:57 am

Ditto kelli!
Good post - wish all guys could read it!

Something interesting in my life: A surprise on my naked body this morning
Come visit my blog to know what I get up to from time to time: [blog 4jasmine2]


KristisKiss 54F  
1 post
6/19/2013 9:42 pm

Hi my name is Kristifrog and I am a Submissive nympho wife who is wanting to find a local woman Sub in the Milwauki area for my LongDistance Dom ~ A wonderful man who pays attention to the details and treats a lady with respect, Yes I said Repesct,=. I live on the westcoast ans simply unable to serve him the way he deserves. If someone were to give themselves to him I guarantee they would know what it's like to be given the world on a platter. I have posted his photo so that you can look into his eyes, because they say the eyes are the window to your soul.


rm_daowyn1531 47M
1 post
9/4/2013 5:50 pm

Hi to all just ck. On the site. Middle age young man. just lookin for fun conversation right no


rm_trymytalent 63M
1 post
12/16/2013 1:55 am

You are right...but if I want a girlfriend I will go to eHarmony, we are here for sex, so show me dont tell!!!!!


BigPoppa61167 56M
55 posts
1/19/2014 4:44 pm

OOOPS, guess I better change my pic.


Survivalist7 57M
15 posts
9/13/2014 12:13 am

Great Post! Thanks for your opinion!


veryinterest51 64M
3 posts
2/19/2015 8:01 am

just arrived quite overwelming.just wonder if women realy do watch guys on camunless they are also preforming.post349670


veryinterest51 64M
3 posts
2/19/2015 8:15 am

hi all it is very tough to think pure thoughts when most ladieshave suchsexy picsnot complaining just stating a fact. post 349670


indigoink 68T
18 posts
3/20/2017 5:38 pm

Great letter! I have written several myself covering same subjects similarly. Feel free to read them.
My profile, albeit long, is there for information so I don't have to repeat myself a thousand time on some basic questions. It also shows interest and respect. You will always get a better response when you take the time to read the profile, and I can ALWAYS tell. ALWAYS!!!!!
When some one contacts ME on this site, it is the first thing I go to and do. I READ the profile. I want to know about you. The more informed I am, the better prepared I am to meet someone new and begin the adventure!
A dick pic for your profile speaks volumes about the sort of person you are and your intentions. If I see that, I usually don't bother reading any profile, and I don't respond to you if you try to communicate.
I want some one brave enough to show their face here. As a Male or a Female. If you are afraid to show your face here, you're likely going to be afraid to be seen out with me and your intentions again will be in question. Further, I do not respond to "friend requests" if you haven't made the effort to write to me. (BTW... That's is also covered in MY profile, IF you've read it, you would know, right??) Anyway, I'm not here to "collect" friends. When I make a "friend", it is made thru conversation, not blindly.
Well enough of me jabbering-on about this for now. I'm sure we'll cover more in the future.
Thanks for taking the time, Jackie, to post on some topics that can never get too much coverage!
Love to you all!
Xoxoxo...!!!
indie!


indie


hart8foryoo 59M
4 posts
2/8/2018 4:19 pm

Can anyone help me figure out how to join this group..l keep pressing the join group..and it wont let me post


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